Self Empowerment Through Overcoming Manipulation

We all have moments where people make us feel like we can’t be ourselves or even being ourself is wrong.

It's always important to stand your ground. Only you can know you, don’t let people tell you who you are.

I was manipulated into believing I was something I wasn't. This is unacceptable. I mean it when no one can tell you who you are.

Sometimes people see you as they see themselves and can project the way they feel about themselves onto you.

After having a clear mind, removing myself from a toxic situation. I thought it was really disgusting to make someone believe that they’re something they’re not in order to gain value for themselves, twisting events to make themselves look good and blaming others.

I was made to believe I was in the wrong when I should have been supported.

"No matter where you are in life right now or whatever situation you're in, it’s possible for you to make a change. It’s possible for you to take control of your life, to take the little or big steps you need in order to be happy."

Focus your energy on change, you really are in control of the outcome in your life. You can take charge and manifest, even if it’s subconscious. Your thoughts become energy and then action takes place.

I believe because I didn't want to be at that job any more things were put in place to get me out of there.

The whole situation where I was made to believe I was toxic, was actually a response to how I was treated. I was accused of harassment when I believed if anything, it was a coping mechanism.

It was a reflection of poor management, they were incredibly insecure with a superiority complex because of this, they were a bully.

I told the truth, I wasn't toxic, yet the company would rather not care about the wellbeing of their staff and support poor managers and get rid of quality staff.

"It’s completely important to take moments for yourself."

We're going to talk more about the ego in the future but getting caught up in your ego is the worst, we don’t wanna go there.

It’s completely important to practise moments of mindfulness and zen. Take moments for yourself. Focus on who you are or what you want to be, create the best version of yourself, become unstoppable to the point where no one has control over you.

As long as you know what you want, what you can do, you know within your instincts what you deserve in life, you won't let anyone get in the way.

Don’t sacrifice any part of yourself for something that doesn’t align with your purpose.

I did it for money, yet that job was keeping me poor. I got really frustrated because it was exhausting me, so I could never be my best self, never do the things that bettered myself. Never let that happen to you.

It was exhausting because I began to believe I wasn't good enough, it was poor management, I was never encouraged. Leaders don’t command, good management should be supportive. I had no support after being told I was doing my job wrong, I was really discouraged.

You should be the best version of yourself, always, it should never feel like a survival. I was never sure of myself in the workplace, it was a very condescending environment. I felt like I could do my job properly, with lots of micro-managing. I didn’t realise how unprofessional they were until I was looking for work elsewhere.

Everyone is on their own journey, so you cannot compare your life to others. Yet, if you know you deserve better, then you'll do better for yourself, listen to your instinct, what's it telling you?

You are worth so much more than how others are treating you, if you know on the inside that you deserve better, you do.

You are in complete control of the situation in your life, make the best thing happen for you. It’s odd how things can unfold but I promise you, you’re on the right track. The universe is for you and not against you.

It could be a possibility, if you feel that way, then maybe you’re against yourself. Watch what you say to yourself, again, your thought pattern may become your reality.

"If you believe you're not worthy of anything, you will be. Yet if you believe you are worthy of what you want and you show up as her, if you are the best version of yourself that you can be, then you will be, it's as simple as that."

Don't ever worry about a thing, the universe is for you and whatever happens to you is a response to your energy and how you react is what is going to change your life, that’s what gunna have the best impact.

Don't let anyone make you feel like you don't deserve anything, you’ll instinctively know in your heart that the things that are meant to be yours will be. Never tell anyone your plans, just show them. Never let anyone knock down your dreams.

Don't allow people to tell you what you can and can’t do, you know your purpose and if you don’t, you'll have the fun of finding out what it is. It’s important to find something that's going to anchor you, so you won't give up the right to let people tell you who you are.

Give yourself self respect and remove anything that doesn’t serve you towards being your best self, this is one of the biggest form of self love and self empowerment.

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